please god help me

I don’t know why our merge life not really going good I think my husband doesn’t care about me.

If I say I have some pain in my leg or something he never asked for to give me some medicine or let me do massage or nothing but if he has some problem I always asked him u want me to give u some medicine or let me do massage…..

but when he doesn’t ask me I feel why i care about him because I love him?