Please make my personality better, nobody likes me I’m so quiet and weird.
I just want to fit in
I know it’s not something that is easy to admit, but I feel like I need to get this off my chest. I look at myself and I don’t like what I see. I’m not proud of who I am, and it’s not just one thing that bothers me. It’s a whole host of traits and characteristics that I find unappealing.
I feel like I’m not good enough. I compare myself to others and feel like they have something that I don’t. They’re more outgoing, more confident, more successful. I don’t know how to be like them, and it makes me feel like I’m always falling short.
Sometimes I feel like I’m not even sure who I am. I act differently around different people, and I don’t know which version of myself is the real me. I worry that if people really knew me, they wouldn’t like me. I’m afraid of being rejected, so I try to be someone I’m not.
I’ve tried to change. I’ve read self-help books, taken personality tests, and tried to be more mindful. But nothing seems to work. I feel like I’m stuck with who I am, and that’s not a good feeling.
I know that hating myself isn’t healthy. It’s affecting my relationships, my career, and my mental health. I’m tired of feeling this way, but I don’t know how to change. I’m hoping that by admitting this, I can start to work on accepting myself for who I am.
I don’t want to hate my personality anymore. I want to learn to love and embrace all of my quirks and flaws. I want to be proud of who I am and not constantly compare myself to others. It’s not going to be easy, but I’m willing to try.