There is no secret formula. You also know that the genie who makes wishes can do almost anything. Because interfering with emotions or influencing them is not possible. But yes, they can be stimulated. To create some closeness, a desire to see us, to hear and get to know each other, and more and more.
A person loves what makes him good and does not like what does not make him good. And if you make someone feel bad, they will love you less or hate you, depending on how badly you do them.
Who does not want to feel valued, one who is also loved professionally and socially?
If you feel that a black cat has passed between you and another person, you will take the first step, even if he does not cooperate, you will overcome your ego and schedule a meeting or conversation if there is no cooperation release. But at least you tried, and this discomfort in each volume will be smaller.
Seven tips on how to make others love us?
- For people to love us give them value and even something unique that makes it stand out and make an impact. When we share our value and do so out of a desire to give, we make people love, connect, follow and appreciate us.
- Know how to listen to others – without breaking out. Understand what they want and how I can help them.
- Know to pardon without criticism (without mourning) and if you want to give feedback, talk at eye level with points for improvement on what others can do.
- Be careful not to interpret the situations, behaviors, and situations of others. You do not know what happened there. Show compassion, and maintain restraint and patience. And if you made a mistake, take responsibility and apologize.
- We all want to be in the company of fun people. So if we want them to be in our company, we must be fun, kind, intriguing, smiling, and good conversationalists. It is important to note that when a person tries too hard to entertain others, it does not seem reliable, and it is a little less fun.
- Call people by name
- And the most crucial advice is to love yourself – the others will already be stuck.