Have you ever had to decide and choose between several options? Suppose you had to decide between finding the love of your life or getting $ 100 million? Or give up the internet or give up friends? What will you decide? Some decisions we have on a daily basis large and small. Such a dilemma or such a small or large junction, in which one debates what should I do, what to choose and feel a little confused? And you know everyone will decide otherwise. And sometimes even the 2 options are not something. So how to decide between a few options and what are the 4 questions that will guide you to make a decision.
What is the difference between a choice and a decision?
A decision in the English language is to decide which means to decide. That is, cut from and disconnect from.
A decision is one and the choice has at least 2 options and even more. That is, option A and option B. We reached the junction right and left straight….
If we chose option A and did not decide it means that we did not cut option B and therefore it will still remain in the background.
4 questions to strengthen the decision
4 questions you will ask yourself that you will feel more complete with the decision – strengthen confidence
First question – how much do you want this decision? From 1-10 How does it feel to you?
Second question – will the decision advance me to my goal? What is my goal anyway? This is the endpoint I want to get to in a particular matter. For example, if I have a dilemma about the relationship I want to reach the end of the process for a feeling of peace, tranquility, love, joy. The intention here is not to reach a relationship, career, or money because once we have a peaceful quiet… these other things will also come.
Third question – what is the price – does every decision have a price? Because the decisions we make not only affect life on a practical level, they also build our identity. For example, if we decide to break up a family, we will be in the status of divorced/separated, if we change jobs, we will make the status employee or self-employed.
And remember if we do not decide… life will decide. It’s for the procrastinators among us. Who prefer not to face life-making decisions or postpone them until the deadline. Last-minute postponement leads to decisions made out of pressure and not in a logical way, often without enough time to explore more options.
Fourth question – what is the benefit? What will I gain when I decide on a certain path and whether it will advance me to my goal.